Shopping & Jewelry

The best way to find a ring she will love is to choose the engagement ring together, but if you want to surprise her or if you don’t want her to be involved with the cost and payment you may want to choose the ring yourself. With some careful thought and by paying attention you should be able to find an and engagement ring she will love.

Learn Her Likes & Dislikes

If you haven’t already you need to pay close attention to what she likes and what she doesn’t like. Notice what types and styles of jewelry she wears on a regular basis. Does she like vintage, or modern styles, or maybe she likes classic styles that have a timeless quality? It is also important to know what type of precious metal she prefers. Some women only wear silver or white gold and some only wear gold. Maybe she prefers platinum.

If she has a newly engaged friend, pay attention to the comments she makes about her friend’s ring. If possible go into a jewelry store together, tell her you are looking for a new watch, and browse a little bit. Ask her opinions on the jewelry you look at together.

Choosing The Shape & Setting

If you know what shape of diamond she likes best you may consider buying her a loose diamond to show her when you pop the question, then you can choose the ring and the setting together. This may be the way to go if you want her to have some say in the ring, but you want to surprise her at the same time.

But if you still want to give her the finished ring when you ask her to marry you you will still need to find out what diamond shapes she likes and which she doesn’t like. Round is the most common shape, but don’t just assume that is what she would prefer.

Once you choose the shape of the diamond you need to choose the setting. A solitaire is when the diamond is set alone in the ring, a three stone ring is when the main diamond is the centerpiece with smaller stones on either side, another option is a cluster of stones. Make sure you know which type of setting she likes best as this is a vital part of the ring.

Make Sure It Fits Your Lifestyle

The height of the ring and the prongs can occasionally get in the way of day to day life. If she is really active or athletic and practical you want to think about the size and shape of the ring. But if she loves getting manicures, is more careful and doesn’t mind the extra care of specific types of jewelry you may choose something different.

Part of fitting your lifestyle means finding an engagement ring that fits your budget. It will be a big, lifetime investment but don’t put yourself in a bad position financially just to get a specific ring. There are a wide variety of rings to fit into all budgets. After buying the ring you may also need to consider engagement ring insurance to protect this important investment.